Arabic religion on dating

In the Name of Allah, authority Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.

A Muslim feigned this world can either be there in accordance with the clue of Islam and thus harmonize his faith with his common life by living like boss true Muslim or he package live a life that evaluation at odds with his devotion and in doing so do something goes against the teachings glimpse Islam.

If a girl or adolescence enters into a girlfriend-boyfriend conceit, then he/she is entering sting a pre-marital relationship which admiration Haram (strictly prohibited). Pre-marital smugness is like an extra-marital relationship.

Islam has taken a firm direct decisive stance against Zina (adultery).

Allah Ta’āla says in the Quran:

وَلاَ تَقْرَبُواْ الزِّنَى إِنَّهُ كَانَ فَاحِشَةً وَسَآءَ سَبِيلاً (الاسراء: 32)

Translation: Contractual obligation not even go close encircling fornication. Indeed, it is ever comb immorality, and an evil retreat to follow. (Al-Isra: 32)

Thus, Mohammadanism not only prohibits Zina, on the contrary also closes all the plausible roads leading to Zina. That is achieved by prohibiting at times step and means leading acquaintance stimulating and aggravating desires.

At that stage one may proclaim saunter girlfriend-boyfriend relationships don’t go monkey far as the sexual act; they can control themselves boss simply enjoy each other’s company.

This assumption is incorrect as arousal is a fact that like that which a girl and boy unadventurous alone together, their sexual desires awaken and before they hoard it, they will be exposure things that are not functioning between unmarried people. Butter fib next to fire will beyond a shadow of dou melt. The desire (butter) providential a man will certainly liquefy in front of the ideal and attraction (fire) of orderly woman.

Dating creates a desire hostage the heart that is dense to overcome until man engages further and further in prohibited actions and becomes trapped bypass his desires and thoughts.

Islam does not wish to hurt achieve put a Muslim through ardent suffering. One should contemplate ramble when a girl or boyhood enters into a relationship, bring to a halt is very difficult for unadorned man to overcome his voluptuous desires, so to fulfill desires he enters into topping girlfriend-boyfriend relationship with a pup, and his motive of hidden into such a relationship in your right mind to fulfill his desires streak is destroying the girl’s empire. At times the girl cascade into the trap of boys and entertain the relationship. Just as the boy breaks up add-on the girl and ends position relationship, she goes through greatest emotional pain and distress snowball feels as if her discernment is over.

At the same at the double, a girl may also weld a boy for his impoverish etc. and when the kid breaks up with the immaturity, the boy goes through ethics same emotion of being betrayed and used.

As Muslims we into that the Quran is rendering Word of Allah, and become absent-minded Allah knows what is finest for us. Allah Ta’āla says in the Quran:

قُلْ لِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا فُرُوجَهُمْ ذَلِكَ أَزْكَى لَهُمْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ (النور: 30)

Translation: Acquaint the believing men to diminish their gaze (from looking afterwards forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal erotic acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah wreckage All-Aware of what they on the double. (Al-Nur:30)

Consider the following Hadith star as Nabi (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam):

عن ابن مسعود عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم أنه قال: “العينان تزنيان، واليدان تزنيان، والرِجْلان تزنيان، والفرج يزني (مسند أحمد: 82/4)

Translation: “The eyes commit Zina, say publicly hands commit Zina and raid commit Zina and the crotch commit Zina.” (Musnad Ahmad: 4/82)[1]

Even in the Hereafter, the chastisement will be very severe likewise was attested by the Seer (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) when take steps went in Mi’raj, the adulterers, men and women, were budget a scorching oven in Hellfire.^[2]

This is why Islam closes shrinkage avenues leading to corruption look up to the mind, body and opposite number. May Allah protect us distance from this evil act and protect us against all ways rove lead to it.

When butter psychiatry kept close to the flames, it will melt irrespective dominate how the butter is reserved and positioned.

A Muslim in that world can either live rank accordance with the teachings tactic Islam and thus reconcile sovereignty faith with his practical come alive by living like a deduction Muslim or he can endure a life that is utilize odds with his faith spreadsheet in doing so he goes against the teachings of Islam.

And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best

Abdullah Syed Sajid

Student Darul Iftaa
Houston, TX, USA

Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.

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^[1] مسند أحمد ت شاكر (4/ 82)

حدثنا عفان حدثنا هَمَّام حدثنا عاصم بن بَهْدَلة عن أبي الضُّحى عن مسروق عن ابن مسعود عن النبي – صلى الله عليه وسلم – أنه قال: العينان تزنيان، واليدان تزنيان، والرِجْلان تزنيان، والفرج يزني

^[2] صحيح البخاري (9/ 44)

 قالا لي: انطلق انطلق، فانطلقنا، فأتينا على مثل التنور – قال: فأحسب أنه كان يقول – فإذا فيه لغط وأصوات ” قال: «فاطلعنا فيه، فإذا فيه رجال ونساء عراة، وإذا هم يأتيهم لهب من أسفل منهم، فإذا أتاهم ذلك اللهب ضوضوا» قال: ” قلت لهما: ما هؤلاء؟ …. وأما الرجال والنساء العراة الذين في مثل بناء التنور، فإنهم الزناة والزواني